It Ends Tonight

So I was thinking today and I came to wonder, why do people not believe that a good friendship takes effort from each of the parties? I mean when you are just friends with someone you can go a while without seeing them and it is no big deal, but when it comes to your best friends, not seeing them for a week seems like ages. How can one expect to not put forth effort to see someone close to them and expect not to lose them? I personally feel really guilty when I don't get to see my good friends when I am really busy, but when it comes to certain people the same thoughts don't seem to apply to me. Like for me not seeing Honey Mustard or Consuela or my Mama for a couple of weeks is like missing a whole part of my life. And when Kenzie leaves for Disney for 5 months I am going to be beside myself. And it is probably the same way back to me from these people, but like with CJ, we get in an argument and he wont even try to put in the effort to talk to me because I guess it isn't worth it to him.So I guess my thought for today is when is the right time to realize that you are putting more into a friendship than you are getting out of it, and when is the right time to move on if the above occurs? <3>